tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post4818105836135095870..comments2024-03-27T20:59:48.293+11:00Comments on eclectica: Choiceskyliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-56381824892143201652018-05-29T04:30:01.623+10:002018-05-29T04:30:01.623+10:00"I could be wrong but I thought lucidity was ..."I could be wrong but I thought lucidity was a requirement for assisted suicide even where it is legal?"<br /><br />I overlooked the fact that this was a question. I don't even see how a non-lucid person could commit suicide because a non-lucid person couldn't make a decision. In a nation with just laws, he or she could create an an advance directive detailing when he or she would like to be euthanized. In the case of Alzheimer's for example, a person couldn't presently create such a directive, and this means that his only option would be to kill himself while he still had his faculties. One of Jack Kevorkian's first cases involved a local (Oregon) woman who was in exactly that boat, and I too might be someday. I wouldn't want Peggy to drain our savings keeping me in a nursing home, and I wouldn't want to live in such a condition even if she had so much money she wouldn't miss it. To me, keeping people like that alive is a travesty. Peggy disagrees, so if she was the one who was suffering, I would do whatever she said she wanted while she still had brains to know.Snowbrushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00436087215476479042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-63808169101612393942018-05-19T09:44:31.774+10:002018-05-19T09:44:31.774+10:00"Is assisted suicide the same as euthanasia?&..."Is assisted suicide the same as euthanasia?"<br /><br />No, euthanasia is done on the patient's behalf without regard to the patient's current lucidity or even consciousness. Assisted suicide was what your countryperson underwent. So far as I know, euthanasia isn't legal anywhere, so let's say, for example, that you have some neurological disease that would eventually preclude you from swallowing a drug, tripping a valve, or taking ANY other measure to end your life, you need to kill yourself while you still can take a drug or trip a valve.Snowbrushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00436087215476479042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-58776503187326819032018-05-19T09:31:59.283+10:002018-05-19T09:31:59.283+10:00Snow,
I could be wrong but I thought lucidity was...Snow, <br />I could be wrong but I thought lucidity was a requirement for assisted suicide even where it is legal?<br />Is assisted suicide the same as euthanasia?kyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-90825022999699955852018-05-19T09:30:34.231+10:002018-05-19T09:30:34.231+10:00Yes, those are completely reasonable sentiments.
...Yes, those are completely reasonable sentiments. <br />Having said that, I don't regret my judgement because he invited public scrutiny and it has initiated conversation.kyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-86344252553213590862018-05-19T04:55:39.201+10:002018-05-19T04:55:39.201+10:00My 85-year-old father exacted a promise from me as...My 85-year-old father exacted a promise from me as the time of his death approached. That promise was that I would not let him linger in pain "Even if you have to ease me out," he said, and I told him I would do whatever it took. My only reluctance about giving him my promise was that I knew it might very well oblige me to break the law. Other than that, I was happy to give my father the peace that came from knowing that his son would not allow him to suffer. It was my final gift to him, and I've never had a smigden of regret. We put suffering pets to death and call it it mercy; we put suffering humans to death and call it murder. I can't say that, in a world free of religion, euthanasia would soon become legal, but I do think that religion is a very great impediment to this and many other things that fairly scream out, "This right; this is just; this is merciful." The reason that it is an impediment is because once a person is convinced that he (or she) knows with certainty what it is that God expects of him, all other considerations become irrelevant.Snowbrushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00436087215476479042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-16696363458654299282018-05-19T04:52:43.217+10:002018-05-19T04:52:43.217+10:00"I absolutely support a person's right to..."I absolutely support a person's right to leave this earth if they are lucid."<br /><br />Then you would not support a person with, for example, Alzheimer's arranging to die at a time when he or she is no longer lucid? I've no doubt but that many, many people kill themselves well before they're ready to die because they know that if they wait, they won't be able to carry out their intention. If euthanasia was legal, everything could be arranged in advance.Snowbrushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00436087215476479042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-5137913689661720482018-05-19T02:11:46.391+10:002018-05-19T02:11:46.391+10:00I also support euthanasia and have no judgment aro...I also support euthanasia and have no judgment around the time chosen by David Goodall. It is such an intensely private decision and I'm sure it wasn't a knee-jerk reaction to his deteriorating physical health. I'll wait til I'm 102 before passing comment on his choice :) and meanwhile will celebrate his life well lived. Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02803104035204416080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-48388201126380211152018-05-18T08:20:04.427+10:002018-05-18T08:20:04.427+10:00Well I might have to go back to the drawing board ...Well I might have to go back to the drawing board on my reaction to his death but it would seem that my assessment of him as impatient was pretty close to the mark!kyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-8906802427610917072018-05-18T08:17:29.977+10:002018-05-18T08:17:29.977+10:00That took some fortitude, for you both. That took some fortitude, for you both. kyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-12651025771543465472018-05-18T06:02:13.856+10:002018-05-18T06:02:13.856+10:00I absolutely support a person's right to leave...I absolutely support a person's right to leave this earth if they are lucid. So many people suffer terribly - you wouldn't allow an animal to suffer like that. But talking about his being "in a hurry", oddly enough as he pressed the button to release the chemicals there was a problem and he (apparently) asked what was taking so long. So because of that they had to go through the routine of asking him yet again if he was sure he wanted to go through with it. AnnaTreadershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613671137557939083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-8037554971574622182018-05-18T02:48:14.548+10:002018-05-18T02:48:14.548+10:00Mum just didn't eat but just had water. For he...Mum just didn't eat but just had water. For her final few days she was in a lovely nursing home. A doctor wanted to get a court order to force feed her but I pointed out how ludicrous he would look and he didn't pursue it. He was just covering his back. There was no positive assistance to die and no risk of any legal action.Graham Edwardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11196744947133121475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-63555603500399009392018-05-16T17:42:44.156+10:002018-05-16T17:42:44.156+10:00The last time I ever saw my grandfather he told me...The last time I ever saw my grandfather he told me he was tired and I think it's a common sentiment.<br />Did your mum need help, were you at risk of prosecution? I am always a little bit in awe of the planning that goes in to that kind of death (I'm guessing she didn't travel to Switzerland)kyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-48964198457489032752018-05-16T08:43:38.639+10:002018-05-16T08:43:38.639+10:00I understand your point of view perfectly. However...I understand your point of view perfectly. However I don't know the full story and perhaps even he didn't tell everyone the full story.<br /><br />At the young age of 93 and with all her faculties my Mother held a family conference about a year after her husband died. She was tired. She explained that she was not as agile mentally as she had been (but was still more mentally agile than I ever was) and was not going to be able to finish the book she was writing. She had decided to join those of her friends and family who had passed on. Three weeks later she joined them. She had the willpower to leave this life and she did. I didn't like it but I respected her decision and was with her until she died. Graham Edwardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11196744947133121475noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-5555209267764035362018-05-16T08:27:43.858+10:002018-05-16T08:27:43.858+10:00I didn't know he couldn't swallow, that...I didn't know he couldn't swallow, that's no kind of life.<br />I must have read different reports to what others did because I was under the impression he was in reasonable health.<br />I have probably been wrong about this but I also need to do some more thinking....kyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-56468166318898712152018-05-16T04:44:22.303+10:002018-05-16T04:44:22.303+10:00Kylie, you write as if you feel personally letdown...Kylie, you write as if you feel personally letdown. The thought also come to me that many people who are dealing with severe health issues fear that if assisted suicide and euthanasia should win acceptance, they will be pressured to end their own lives for the convenience of others, and I'm wondering if some of your criticism of David Goodall might have been borne from such a fear.<br /><br />"I wondered why Dr Goodall was so quick to decide that his life was not worth living. At 104 his remaining life was undoubtedly very limited but I felt as though he was reluctant to develop any other interest or purpose."<br /><br />"Very limited" indeed! He couldn't even swallow the drug that ended his life. As for being "quick" to end his life, given that he had survived 104 years of life's vicissitudes, it's hardly like he jumped ship the first time he had a problem. Perhaps, his timing was influenced by his fear that, if he waited, his failing body might have deprived him of the ability to even turn the IV valve. While he might well have made the final decision fairly rapidly, I think it likely that he had given the matter a lot of thought over a lot of years, and that when certain conditions were met, he was ready to act.<br /><br />The average person who retires at 65 or 70 doesn't have the luxury of euthanasia for the reason that they are getting older and dislike the effects of age."<br /><br />What a blessing it would have been to 63-year-old Robin Williams and those close to him if he had been able to escape the depredations of "diffuse Lewy body dementia" with painless dignity. Unfortunately, even people who are 104 don't don't have such a "luxury" in most places.Snowbrushhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00436087215476479042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-15768260081444757142018-05-15T19:38:20.474+10:002018-05-15T19:38:20.474+10:00yes, it would be very frustrating. Maybe I expecte...yes, it would be very frustrating. Maybe I expected too much of himkyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-67134574040492182722018-05-15T18:23:42.627+10:002018-05-15T18:23:42.627+10:00I read somewhere that he was losing his vision, an...I read somewhere that he was losing his vision, an inactive life is one thing, but to be inactive and blind must really make life not worth living. LL Cool Joehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13916666100971008775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-71719787853287688812018-05-15T11:13:05.058+10:002018-05-15T11:13:05.058+10:00I'm still trying to get my head around why thi...I'm still trying to get my head around why this particular one bothers me. I have watched documentaries about assisted suicide and seen numerous people make that choice without batting an eyelid.<br />Thanks for taking me seriously :)kyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-51829096463925514352018-05-15T04:43:23.375+10:002018-05-15T04:43:23.375+10:00It is always interesting -- and uncomfortable -- t...It is always interesting -- and uncomfortable -- to be faced with a situation that collides with what we think we thought. Every time this has happened to me I found it was good for me to stretch my thinking to come to a new understanding. I have to go away and think about what you are saying now, as it's a new nuance of the assisted suicide debate that I hadn't considered.jenny_ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15475480579733466963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-90347249748148234952018-05-14T23:29:23.505+10:002018-05-14T23:29:23.505+10:00I don't even have the same opinion as myself, ...I don't even have the same opinion as myself, Terry and I know it's a difficult subject so I don't expect to agree with everyone.<br />I do expect readers to try to get their head around what I'm trying to saykyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-27738643240994232152018-05-14T23:13:52.302+10:002018-05-14T23:13:52.302+10:00I do understand that and accept it although I susp...I do understand that and accept it although I suspect your children would view it as a privilege to care for you. kyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-44655625143580223912018-05-14T23:09:29.496+10:002018-05-14T23:09:29.496+10:00You can’t expect everyone to have the same opinion...You can’t expect everyone to have the same opinion as you, Kylie. It doesn’t work like that.Terryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08094441414025227387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-76896820566484425392018-05-14T23:07:08.664+10:002018-05-14T23:07:08.664+10:00Nick you are putting words I didn't say into m...Nick you are putting words I didn't say into my mouth.kyliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964475783207438103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-11986278115762225922018-05-14T22:48:21.510+10:002018-05-14T22:48:21.510+10:00No one's saying that if you're rejected fo...No one's saying that if you're rejected for a job or you aren't physically perfect, you ought to die. What I'm saying is that it's up to the individual. One person might want to hang on as long as possible, even if they're getting frailer and frailer, while another person still in relatively good health wants to go. I think that decision should be respected. But it's a very controversial issue.nickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10472673041193755894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9017882226857032208.post-9727245607986474682018-05-14T22:34:05.552+10:002018-05-14T22:34:05.552+10:00I am a senior citizen. I am fairly independent an...I am a senior citizen. I am fairly independent and can look after myself now. I however foresee the time that will come when I may not be able to due to some permanent problems that I have learnt to live with. Before that happens, I would also like to die as I don't want to be a burden on my children or be dependent on professional help for day to day living. I suspect that in the case of Goodall too he must have reached that stage and decided to opt out.Rummuserhttp://rummuser.comnoreply@blogger.com