Daily you will rise and go to your keyboard. You will blog. And you will read what people write in response to your blog. And you will write responses to what they have written. And then you will visit the blogs of those who have responded to you. And you will write pleasant and cheery comments there. And then you will go back to your own blog, to see if anyone has responded to your responses. And then you will go back to the blogs of others, to see if anyone has responded to your responses to them.
Yes, that's me.
I haven't checked my sources but I believe that this is an excerpt from an article on why writers shouldn't have blogs. It apparently talks about how blogging distracts from the business of "writing".
I know I should check the source, read what I'm talking about but I'm not a journalist and I'm about to tell you my opinion, yes opinion, so I can say what I want without following due process.
The quote above really irritated me. Maybe it annoyed me because I recognise my own stupidity in the description or maybe it irritated me because the writer is looking down their nose at blogging.
The thing is, I'm not a writer, not even an aspiring writer so blogging isn't distracting me from "writing". It is, however, distracting me from the television or this morning it might be distracting me from the newspaper. So? What have I lost so far? A newspaper full of news I'll probably read later? A good number of nights in front of the box?
Millions of sports fans all over the world spend hours watching other people chase balls around courts, pitches and fields. They watch people drive cars around race tracks and people who want to swim faster than anyone else. Does all that sport achieve anything much? Do the spectators gain from it?
I know a woman who loves quilting. She makes beautiful quilts, bags, wallhangings, whatever. Her work is beautiful but she spends a lot of money to make these items when she could just buy them much cheaper and I wonder just how many beautiful bags, wallhangings and quilts her family needs. Should she stop quilting?
Thousands of musicians just jam in their garages with their mates, they never play in orchestras or become the Rolling Stones or write songs. They just play for enjoyment. Should they be striving for something greater?
You can see what I'm saying in my very subtle way. Sneering at blogging or bloggers is just intellectual snobbery.
When I was a little girl I was at the beach with my family and I made a disparaging comment about a largish woman who should have been embarrassed to be seen on the beach in a swimsuit. My Mum told me that the woman was to applauded for getting out and enjoying a nice day at the beach and not worrying what she looked like. (We all know that she probably was worried about her looks and decided to do it anyway, but that only enhances my argument)
I can't say I've always heeded that lesson but it has stayed in my head.
Our artistic or leisure pursuits are our own and we'll do what suits us.
Let the supermodels prance around looking gorgeous, worrying about getting their hair wet and how to maintain the perfect figure.
I'm going to lie here like a beached whale in my string bikini, enjoy the sun, splash around in the water, get a bit sunburned if I'm not careful enough and go home having had a pleasant day at the beach.
"A man who works with his hands is a laborer; a man who works with his hands and his brain is a craftsman; but a man who works with his hands and his brain and his heart is an artist."
Louis Nizer
I laughed way too hard. Way, way, way too hard. I just read Brian's post (CSI Seattle) and he read the same article and had a different take. I had to really think about his, but yours? Nope, I don't have to think at all. I agree in so many ways. You have to go to Brian's to see what I wrote there to understand what I'm writing here. I'm going to post about this without ever having read her comment, only because I got the jist of it. And that's enough. I think that what amazed me most was the fact the two of you, people I adore and respect, read the same article and reacted differently. Both of you made me think. Really hard. Will I eventually read it? Probably, but not unless absolutely necessary. I want to imagine if necessary and define only if absoutely necessary.
ReplyDeleteI love you dear. Thank you for this amazing post. I agree with you almost 100%. Let me grab my Manolo Blahnik's and that black bikini from a few post back and meet you down on the beach. It isn't going to be pretty, but we're going to have a wonderful time!
Love you,
XO
Hiya Suze,
ReplyDeleteI wrote this post and it took 36 hours to get a comment....I thought I might have taken an unpopular view, wondered if I had got it completely wrong, so i'm glad you showed up.
It was Brians post that inspired this one and I do understand where he is coming from but I think it's horses for courses and if Brian needs to step back thats fine but ms Hobbs has no right to go around saying stuff like that.
Like you , I wondered how on earth she knew so much about blogging :)
See you on the beach, babe
k
Kylie,
ReplyDeleteDon't worry about these "journalists" they are not the Mike Carltons or Richard Glovers of this world. How ironic that journalists write in the OPINION pages of that august journal the SMH!
Dear Dad,
ReplyDeleteOh my God, you remind me so much of my F.I.L. You use a lot of really big words! I'm impressed because I don't! When I come to visit Kylie, can I visit with you and mom too? Good. I like Engish Breakfast Tea and a little scone. I'll be there with bells on!
XO
suze, mum doesn't do scones, she does pikelets :)
ReplyDeleteDear Kylie/ snarly/olive,
ReplyDeletewhy you have so many names :)
are you naming you everyday...like my sister did when she was 3yrs...our parents with a big ceremony named her 'biny' cause my name start with 'b'...she didn't like that name she told us her name is 'meenakshi'...long story short...at school she become meena and in all official records :)
I am just addicted to blogging :) here am talking to my friends...i feel like all of you are just living next to me..and know for a long long time..
I don't regret even a minute am spending here. I am not a writer ..just a mom...so blogging is fine with me...once i settled and all the poking is done I'll be back to normal :)
Love you sweetie!
write more...am so proud to have a extended family in Australia :)
Have a beautiful day!
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
Dear Kylie/ snarly/olive,
ReplyDeletewhy you have so many names :)
are you naming you everyday...like my sister did when she was 3yrs...our parents with a big ceremony named her 'biny' cause my name start with 'b'...she didn't like that name she told us her name is 'meenakshi'...long story short...at school she become meena and in all official records :)
I am just addicted to blogging :) here am talking to my friends...i feel like all of you are just living next to me..and know for a long long time..
I don't regret even a minute am spending here. I am not a writer ..just a mom...so blogging is fine with me...once i settled and all the poking is done I'll be back to normal :)
Love you sweetie!
write more...am so proud to have a extended family in Australia :)
Have a beautiful day!
♥ & ((hugs))
bindi
Hi Kylie,
ReplyDeleteI just had to de-lurk when I read your (by the way, very well-written!) take on Hobb's article! I've been thinking about this so much lately, and I completely agree with you that it's intellectual snobbery to look down on blogging. Actually, one of the things I especially like about blogging is that it's technology, but used for actual deeply personal expression. And I love its democratic nature--I love all the different voices and writing styles, some of people who are "writers" by trade or training, and some of people who simply want to write about themselves, their world, their feelings, etc. Actually, everyone who blogs is a writer! My greatest objection to her article is her contention that blogging is not writing.
On a personal note, of course I didn't like Hobb's comments on the shameless emoting of the blogger, probably because I shamelessly emote on my own blog! Well, it's an outlet, right? One can't emote on their dissertation, can one?
This was a great post, Kylie. You added something to what is in the end (and foo to the rather snarky Miss Hobb) a fascinating intellectual discussion. Very nice to make your acquaintance!
Leah
p.s. your metaphor is brilliant!
Ah yes...the pikelet...the sweet version of the Welsh crumpet (I Googled it!). I'll take a half dozen with some nice tea. Or a whole tea pot. Okay, I'm commin' to Aussie Land! Let the adventure begin because I like your food!
ReplyDeleteWell I knew when you and Leah finally got together the explosion would be insane. I've been waiting. Let me begin by saying this to all readers...DUCK!!! You're too brilliant together. Yes, I could write like the two of you with more effort, but why bother, you do so effortlessly. I'd have to actually try! So instead, I'll just write like this! I was insulted on another blog and told I couldn't conjugate a word. I held my tongue and didn't tell her I could not only conjugate a word but conjugate my foot and her a** in less than a second. B****. (Sorry Dad, some times one has to vent.) If my retired Methodist Minister F.I.L can laugh at this, you can too. Dad #1, you're laughing, right?
What an amazing post and comments. I come here just to learn more. Every reading enlightens me.
I love you and you know that.
XO
Hi Kylie,
ReplyDeleteFantastic post. I have a big smile on my face as I type because THIS is what blogging is all about; powerful opinions supplemented with vivid imagery of bikini's and sunburn.
Your viewpoint of the topic is understood and well received. However, my understanding of Ms. Hobb's article was that it was not intended to be critical of blogging as a whole, but rather she was addressing an aspiring writer who had a blog herself. Ms. Hobb's point is that anytime a writer who aspires to write a book is blogging, well, then they are not writing their book. I gather that her point is that if you're going to type, than type what will bring you closer to the goal.
The quote I posted is interesting in of itself, but out of context of the lengthy article that it came from.
I for one will keep my blog and continue to write. Perhaps one day I will finish my book.
I hope you are doing well.
Brian
Kylie,
ReplyDeleteExcellant Post!!! It took 36 hrs because everybody had to get their thoughts together enough to comment.
I also am glad that Leah de-lurked, I have been lurking at her place...I will have to go say hello. I liked what she had to say. It is wonderful to read all the discusion on this topic.
I know I spend way to much time blogging, but I am not going to quit. I may not post as much right now, but it is because I do have many other things going on.
I should be working on one right now...but here I sit "writing" or "blogging".
I love that I have expanded my world to include so many different people from all over the world, where else could we do that but here in bloggerworld.
So keep up the good work, and have a great week.
Is it April 1st for you, I can never remember the time difference.
I have been gone from home since Friday night, visiting my best friend...will head back tomorrow after my truck is fixed (fuel pump). So I will post something new probably tomorrow night.
Love you,
Gig
hi bindi,
ReplyDeleteyour sister must have been a funny little girl and knew what she wanted.
i'm glad you enjoy blogging and feel like we're all family.
i was reading somewhere recently that women who are considering migrating to ausrtralia (and the US is the same) should be warned about the loneliness of the nuclear family. it has to be an enormous change for people from cultures where the extended family is more involved in everyday life but i think blogging must help.
enjoy the packing :( bleh
love
k
Hey there Leah,
ReplyDeleteI got up this morning and checked my blog, saw that i had a new reader and went off to work with a big grin. That's 2 strikes against me: the immediate gratification that ms hobb scoffs at and the emotional involvement :)
i agree with you on all counts when you start talking of democracy and personal expression.
An emotional dissertation might be a bit of a worry, so yeah, blogging as an outlet is probably a bit more appropriate ;)
i'm glad you stopped lurking, it'll be great to have you back, especially as you're so flattering!
thanks & cheers
k
Suze,
ReplyDeletei don't know what a welsh crumpet is but a pikelet is a little baby hotcake/pancake. best eaten with lots of red jam (must be red) and whipped cream. yum.
i dont know what it means to conjugate a word, i might know how to do it but not what it is! but conjugating feet and bums sounds a little painful :)
I doubt my dad is worried about what you conjugate, I have it on good authority that his mum, yes, his mother, was fond of saying "up yours with the rough end of a pineapple" ouch
take care
k
Ah brian,
ReplyDeletei did actually understand the point of the article but chose to twist my comments to focus on the general anti-blog sentiment.
Certainly an aspiring writer would do well to put some effort into the main project, whatever that may be. I'm thinking though, that Hobb could talk about the need to focus on writing with out being disparaging about blogs.
I'm glad you enjoyed the beach imagery, do my best to keep you guys' attention :)
keep writing and enjoy your newly balanced life, i do applaud you for it.
cheers
k
Hi Gig,
ReplyDeleteI think we all spend too much time blogging but we could be doing worse and I'm also thrilled to have a new group of friends.
four hours to go to april but i'm managing just fine on super slow, so fast downloads tomorrow will be rather luxurious :)
i remember you were having withdrawals from seeing your "bestie" so i hope you've had a fabulous time
love
k
PS Brian,
ReplyDeletei did eventually read the entire article
Suzanne,
ReplyDeleteIt's not the words like august etc that can be truly "big" words in my humble opinion. I'd say they are unfamiliar words. I have trouble with words like eucalyptus,Wolloomooloo, Cockatoo,Budgerigah,galah, Wagga Wagga,
lorikeet, Eumungerie, Kalgoolie, Nurioopta, antrax robusta, accomodation or is it accomadation or akkomadashun? Even California and Massachussetts is problematic for this old boy! Did you all know Kevin Rudd has talked to George Dubbya and Hillary and is actually in USA?
Happy Days to all Bloggers
Well, I am popping in fashionably late as usual. And I just have one thing to say. YOU GO GIRL. I am a writer, sort of, and I find blogging inspiring, fun, and very theraputic. Sure it is a time waster, but it is also a promoter. I have sold about 10 more copies of my book because I blog, therefore, it is a tool that can be used effectivly if one learns how. Wonderful post. Thanks, you are such a hoot and I love coming here.
ReplyDeleteDad,
ReplyDeleteThank God one daughter knows how to Google!!! I have never laughed so hard. Okay, I'll compose myself. I'm dyin' here. Okay, I'll compose myself again. Okay. I'm okay. Okay. Oh God I'm not okay. Okay, I'm okay. Okay, here we go.
Kevein Rudd's a you know what. How perfect he and "Shrub" agree. George Dubbya...God how am I supposed to write this. Please, someone rescue me!!! I can't write if I'm laughing this hard. I can't. Honey, we have a great place. Kylie's too shy to show her face, but I don't think you are. You can find it on Cecile's place. It's the Wild Onion Cafe. You'd blend in beautifully! Just mosie on in honey! If you can't find it easily, I'm going to link to it, then you can. Don't be shy. You have a lot to offer and we'd all love your point of view. Like my FIL you are such a hoot!
Love ya dad...don't be shy.
XO