Thursday, 13 November 2025

The first cherries of the season arrived in my fruit box today. I had been looking forward to them and they are amazing.

As I opened the box I had a sudden pang: they tell you grief will smash you when you least expect. To be honest, it doesn't smash me, it just floats in like a sad cloud but the point is, the cloud floated in today when I least expected although I probably should have.

Dad was crazy about fruit. Fresh fruit, fruit in pies, fruit cake, dried fruit. For a second I wished I could take him some premium cherries. Then I remembered that I bought boxes of cherries for the family last year but I couldn't remember if I bought any for Mum and Dad. I think I did. I really hope I did.

Dad used to drape the little pairs of cherries over his ears like earrings for the entertainment of us kids and then the grands. We rolled our eyes every time. In my eye rolling days I didn't realise it would bebcome a treasured memory, I think it's the cringe-worthiness that makes it so treasured. It was uniquely Dad. 





In much better news, my dear friend Bob has made a return to blogging after an absence of many years. (with a few random intervening posts) Maybe you'd like to check out his work:

https://justbobness.blogspot.com/


I have a rotten cold and I'm so grateful my work week is done.


QOTD:  "Life is not a bowl full of cherries, there's good and bad stuff." - Fuzzy Zoeller 


17 comments:

  1. Modern food science and modern farming has ruined the taste of cherries. I haven't tasted a good one for many years.

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    1. These are a tiny bit sour but the texture is amazing. I have had a lot of amazing cherries but maybe i never had the reeeeally good ones?

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    2. oh and Andrew, they also reminded me of Sue's Christmas tradition of making a huge fruit salad

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  2. High 5 :) I also bought my first cherries for the season today. I did it cautiously because these fruit only become cheaper as the year gets hotter. But we can always put the grandchildren down coal mines, to help pay for the cherry treasures.

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    1. 👋. The grandchildren probably eat the cherries so they deserve it 😊😊

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  3. It's curious how a simple everyday item like a bowl of cherries can stir up old and powerful memories.

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    1. Yes. And I think our departed would be surprised at what simple things prompt memories of them to pop up.

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  4. Those small parent memories are wonderful, but sometimes they spring out like a punch to the gut. Afterward you can just enjoy the memory.

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    1. Yes! Ive heard this idea so many times but couldn't imagine what it would feel like

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  5. I love how you describe these memories happening out of nowhere. Me too. Something small can break my heart for a minute.
    XO
    WWW

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    1. "Break my heart for a minute"
      Thats exactly it

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  6. Me too. I have the gut punch like Anne. Also, it's been 6 years for me and I've started tutting out loud to my parents as though I am in conversation with them still. And I joke with my dad that I can't find the hidden Trust fund and can he guide me to where it is?
    Sx

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    1. I like that you talk to them.
      Hopefully you'll find that trust fund soon

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  7. I wonder if one's "eye rolling days" are the same as one's salad days. Seems to me that those who are just between childhood and adulthood do the most eye rolling. Cherries are cheery.

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    1. Eye rolling days and salad days definitely intersect!
      Thank you , Neil

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